"This One's For The Boys."

In a current society, women seems to be the dominate gender in the category of emotions. It's all about what guys do to girls, or how girls may feel on a day-to-day basis. People try to make it off that men deal with no issues what-so-ever...that they have nothing to worry about. Just because they don't show it, they may be facing a battle no one else could ever handle. Obviously in this post, I'm going to make a reference to how men may feel about women when in or searching for a relationship.

When dealing with relationships, women seem to be in love with the saying "all men are worthless, mean, and all they will ever do is hurt you." Need I remind you that men are what got us here in the first place, so at least give them the credibility for giving your mother the "missing pieces" she needed to put your puzzle together, if you know what I mean. Anyway, as that saying may be true in some areas, there are many flaws included. First off, not all men are like that. Maybe the school "gangster" (if that's even the appropriate thing to call him) who hooks up with the entire cheer team and part of the football team plus the school whore is like that, but I'm pretty sure that the kids we tend to make fun of the most are the ones we are looking for. I'm not saying that all men are perfect and none of them abuse anyone or anything in any possibly way, I'm just saying that we need to cut men some slack. While we complain about how there's no good man out there, they may be doing the same thing. Seriously ladies, lets take a moment to take a good look at ourselves. The way some of choose to  dress is whore-rendous, our attitude towards others isn't always respectful, we too cheat on our boyfriends, we lie, we spread rumors, we can be drama queens, we never know what we want, and we are the queens of gossip. We fight with someone else because they're wearing the same shirt as us, we always want to be right, we can never take a compliment, and the best part is how long we take to get ready for a simple night out. As there is some reason for all of these flaws, there are reasons for as to why men act the way they do.

What I'm trying to say here my fellow queens is that maybe all men aren't what we think they are. Maybe there's that one guy who is drop dead in love with you, and you're the one friendzoning him, just like your crush once did to you. Maybe we're being too harsh on guys. We always expect a great deal from men and to have to do nothing on our part. I believe that if we want a lot from guys, we should put in our best effort or at least try to step it up. So here's what I'm trying to say...not all men are worthless pieces of crap. Maybe we're the ones hitting them with a stick, treating them like crap, and putting them down to expect them to stand up again. I will leave you with that thought.