"Attack Of The 5'10" Women"

Living in New York, are there women here to simply make us feel bad about ourselves? Are there girls here just to tell us we're not good enough? Are there some people here in New York who we could actually become friends with? Who knows?

It seems as if the world has changed. During our parents time or for some of us--our time, things were relatively simpler. I mean, let's face it. We didn't have cell phones, but we always knew where our friends were. When we got into fights at school, we would forget about them the next day. When people were mean to us, we simply ignored them because we had better things to do. But now, girls have gotten worse. Other than the fact that some...or should I say, a good amount of irks dress as if they were 21 at a club. Girls at a young age should not be dressing like that, let alone speaking as if they were 21. Everything today seems to be about telling people off that simply did not do anything to you but you simply hold a grudge against them.

Other than the fact of mean or rude comments, some girls just make fun of the way we dress or act. It's as if they think that doing that will put us down. But for some of us, we struggle in life and these comments seem like a life ending comment. By calling us mentally retarded or simply style-challenged, are women here in New York here to make us feel bad about ourselves? Or are they just here to teach us a lesson? I mean think about it; if we didn't have somebody here to put us down and call us names once in a while or have the occasional "bully"? We most likely would not know how to deal with that kind of stuff in the future. How would we know what to say if someone starts a fight with us? We wouldn't know.

On another note, think about this; "what would the world be like if there were no "bullys" per say?" Would the world be in peace and harmony, or would we crash to the ground? For every Yin, there is a Yang. For every act of kindness, I'm positive that someone in the world is getting teased. It's not a very good thing to say, because even I myself get bullied everyday. But you learn how to deal with it. Life goes on. But furthurmore, are the women here in New York just here to make us feel bad about ourselves? It's your opinion.

"Easy Come, Easy Go"

I got to thinking about relationships and this blog. I am sorry I haven't posted yet, I have been rather busy. But that's off topic. So I got to thinking about relationships and the endless search as well as our hearts and our minds. Would it be safer to follow your heart, or your mind? Does your mind control your heart, or vice-versa?

When it comes to relationships, things can go in any direction. Things can be great, things can be bad, things can be fun, the list is endless. But should we just follow our heart in a crisis, or listen to our head? Following your heart is the most common things people say. But could following your heart lead you to disaster, distruction, or depression? Or could it lead you to the perfect relationship? (Then again, are relationships ever perfect?) Could following your head help you to think twice about what you really want? With following your heart, you don't; or shouldn't listen to what others say. It's about who you truly love, not about the looks or what one said about the other, or like a [famous] quote I once read, "Girls fall in love with wat they hear, and boys fall in love with what they see. That's why girls wear make-up and boys lie." If you chose to listen to your heart, by all means, do what you want. It's your life, after all. Don't worry if the guy you are in love with is a nerd, or a jock, just as long as he treats you right; with respect, manners; treats you like a woman, or how he would wanted to be treated.

Let's not forget about those who want to follow their head. Could it be the right decision after all? The thing about following your mind is you have a thought in the relationship. I'm not saying that following your heart doesn't make you have any thoughts about the relationship, those thoughts come from your heart. One who might follow their heads have thoughts about the relationship from their minds. Maybe a more thought out plan of what may lie ahead. But will following your head lead you to over-thinking small things about the relationship? Making mountains out of mowhills? Who knows. It could possibly be both. The decision is up to you.

So, what is safer? Following your heart, or your mind? Maybe both, actually. Some say follow your heart, but don't leave your head behind, and others say just do what is best for you. The more mistakes you make, the more you learn. So there you have it; your heart, your head, or both to chose from. Maybe you are just better off staying or becoming single, just for your own good. I am in no position to tell you what to do or what is better and what is not, the choice is yours to make. It's your life, and live it however you want to; do what will make you happy. So what will it be? Head, heart, or remain single? It's up to you now; your decision.