"Lost, But Found."

Everyone has misplaced something before. There's no doubt about it. Whether it's your car keys, an expensive watch, your important wallet, a valued piece of jewelry, or maybe even your mind at one point in time. But eventually you retrieved it, right? Well, it's actually the exact same concept with relationships...

No matter who you are, you've had good and you've had bad relationships. Whether you've had those relationships where you dated the person solely to make them happy, or if there was a complication with cheating, in the end, we made it out alright and perhaps even stronger and more wise, am I right? We must've reached a point, where either we've felt blissfully amazing and worthy and where we've felt like nothing could take us down, or when we felt like absolutely nothing in the entire world could have been more special and wonderful ; Maybe we've even felt that without the comfort and/or support of a boyfriend/girlfriend! On the contrary, we've all felt something awful, too. Like catching the other person in the act of cheating, or maybe we've even entered an unhealthy relationship that consisted of emotional, mental or even physical abuse. Maybe we've entered a relationship where we once thought that the other person accepted us and loved us for who we were, but in actuality, that person was doing the complete opposite when our backs were turned. But either way, we've successfully made it through all of that, no? No matter what, we must have entered a little stage where life was just fantastic. Whether it was for a day, for a week, for a month, or even for a whole year or two. We've successfully gotten over at least one big hill yet, yes?

I find fate truly amazing. Everything happens for a reason. Everything. Think about it. If you had not met certain people along the way, your life definitely wouldn't be the way it is now. If you hadn't dated that one person who completely crushed you and tore your heart simply to shreds, you wouldn't know what to do in a situation similar to the one that happened. Or things could have had nothing to do with relationships, but it still somehow inevitably leads you to have great future relationships. Although it could also lead you to have absolutely horrific future relationships, those horrific relationships still somehow lead to even greater ones. Lets say you were abused as a child. Emotionally/Mentally/Physically. You thought that, that one person would save you and make you happy and feel wanted in this cruel world we live in. You thought that you weren't meant to be with anyone but them. But things changed. That person wasn't what you thought they were, and they completely crushed you. Either your family and/or friends helped you overcome that pitiful relationship, or perhaps even something you read online proved to be a help in the situation, such as blogs or quotes. That relationship somehow still made you stronger in the end, as did the one that was after that, etc. Everything happens for a reason you've got to believe that, and when things do happen, the overall outcome is what you strive for because it brings pure happiness and joy to your life.

With all of this said, in the conclusion, at one point, we will certainly overcome all those issues and problems that seem to weigh us down a whole lot. Because we will marry that one person who brings meaning to our lives that's filled with true love, who will never fail to make you feel like the greatest person in the world. You will both wholeheartedly love each other unconditionally, and want to be together forever and always. You will be eternally there for eachother through sickness and in health, for richer or for poor, till death does you part...and all of that other mushy and wedding-ey stuff. Even if everything goes wrong, you have at least felt that way before, and you just couldn't say that you didn't. That's where this little thing called fate comes into play. Fate is what we begin to see inevitably shaping our whole lives. And with that being said, even though we've felt like we've lost something or someone, we've found what we've been missing and we bounce back. We were lost, but we were also found. =)