What's a gal to do, in the stressful event that a guy she called it off with six months ago, still won't budge in letting that relationship go and further moving on? You were the one to call it off with him, yet he's the one who perpetually keeps crawling back to you. What are you to do in this predicament? Even more importantly, where are you to go?
Here's just a free thought, when a relationship unfortunately dies, are we just doomed to being forever haunted by the spirits of the relationships' past? Could we ever really give up the ghost of what could have been or will it always come back to haunt us in some way? The answer to all of these questions is likely yes. If that person truly has feelings for you and you simply have just nothing to offer in return, there's nothing you can really do about it. I know it may hurt to see someone else in pain because you are missing from their life and solely because of you in general, but it's just something you both will have to learn to deal with and accept.
It's just a part of life after all. Fate can be one of these two things : blatantly cruel and downright harsh, or pleasing and absolutely terrific. This would be the cruel part of fate making its presence known, if you couldn't already tell, which I have gone over numerous times in my latest postings here. This type of situation may be sad and depressing now, but hey sooner or later, you will find someone or something to relieve you of the stress being brought about. Perhaps it may be a Nicki Minaj or Nickelback song, your best friend, even a cousin, or a sister, etc. But one way or another, you will overcome the scenario, regardless of how unbelievable that may appear now. As always I really hope this helps you, and if it unfortunately doesn't, I'm truly sorry. Just hang in there as I promise you things will get better. They always seem to do. It is only the way of the world. =)
Here's just a free thought, when a relationship unfortunately dies, are we just doomed to being forever haunted by the spirits of the relationships' past? Could we ever really give up the ghost of what could have been or will it always come back to haunt us in some way? The answer to all of these questions is likely yes. If that person truly has feelings for you and you simply have just nothing to offer in return, there's nothing you can really do about it. I know it may hurt to see someone else in pain because you are missing from their life and solely because of you in general, but it's just something you both will have to learn to deal with and accept.
It's just a part of life after all. Fate can be one of these two things : blatantly cruel and downright harsh, or pleasing and absolutely terrific. This would be the cruel part of fate making its presence known, if you couldn't already tell, which I have gone over numerous times in my latest postings here. This type of situation may be sad and depressing now, but hey sooner or later, you will find someone or something to relieve you of the stress being brought about. Perhaps it may be a Nicki Minaj or Nickelback song, your best friend, even a cousin, or a sister, etc. But one way or another, you will overcome the scenario, regardless of how unbelievable that may appear now. As always I really hope this helps you, and if it unfortunately doesn't, I'm truly sorry. Just hang in there as I promise you things will get better. They always seem to do. It is only the way of the world. =)
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