"Oh Come All Ye Faithful!"

Are relationships nothing other than the religion of the nineties?...
...It seems everyone fears being hurt at the end of a relationship, so we avoid emotional attachment - Maybe we're all simply tired of the Search that leaves us sad and furthermore alone, and we start losing hope, ultimately conforming to the views a broken society preaches about...
...However, it seems others are simply...lazy. They'd rather not contend with the necessities of a commitment or put forth the effort a relationship requires, especially since there's always a chance of heartbreak. Hence, one-night-stands after a fun Friday night of clubbing have become the sexual frontier.

What about all the relationships peeps are trying (not) to hold up? There's really no vivid effort on either side of partnerships. The Laziness-Factor renders them without a care, and once the boat sinks, it's another 'whatever'. Nowadays, when peeps catch actual feelings for somebody else, they refrain from allowing those certain feelings to be heard. It's either laziness or the fear of a sunken ship, holding them back. It's the same concept for those in relationships - Those things render them speechless, therefore, not communicating how they feel behind the smile. Why can't we woman up and accept the fact that not everything in life is going to be all sunshine and roses? If we could manage that, we would have a greater sense of realism and we'd know what to honestly expect, not only in life but in a man. It's obvious no relationship will ever be "perfect". But it not being perfect is actually what makes it so great. There'll always be an argument, or something that challenges how you truly feel, but there's always light at the end of a tunnel...
...In other words, think of it like this : You and your partner will always be walking through a storm in the middle of nowhere before you reach destination 'who-we-wish-to-be'. Instead of having separate umbrellas, there's so much more comfort standing under the same one, remaining strong not giving up on each other. In order to get that imperfectly perfect relationship, you've got to be willing to put yourself out there. It's not until you've experienced an indescribably gut-wrenching heartache, will you be imperfectly perfect with "The One" for you. It's then you will know who you truly are and who you wish to be, where you wish to be, and who it is you wish to be with through it all.

What I'm attempting to say, my Endless Searchers, is you can't give up on relationships and true love. You have to set forth the effort and the time to avoid becoming an individual that past generations would look down on ... The same effort and time the future generations would be inspired by. Don't be startled by fears or allow laziness to hold you back from your destiny and "The One". There's no harm in going out for a little fun with friends - Maybe even picking up a really cute guy that you won't remember the next day, but, every other night isn't acceptable especially depending on your age. You should have the self-respect to in the end, you'll want to meet somebody who recognizes your true beauty and colors, and embraces them ... And not only for what you flaunt on the outside...
...After a bad break-up, it's completely fine to cry, for however long you need. But one day, you'll come to realize you do have faith - Faith in yourself. Faith that you would one day meet someone sure you're the one. You'll stand up, dust yourself off and you'll keep moving forward with life. All I'm asking is that we wise up and handle things properly, letting go of these ridiculous beliefs on how to handle love lives, so that you could find the Harry to your Charlotte.