...Anyone who has done their share of dating, has probably found themselves on one side or the other of the, "It's not you, it's me" song and dance ... These 5 truly common words, which are striving for compassion, simply leave our exes confused and puzzling over where things went wrong. No one buys this explanation, and why honestly should they? After all, most perpetrators of the I.N.Y.I.M will tell others that their partner was completely to blame just as soon as said partner is out of earshot...
Honestly, I don't understand how such a sad excuse can carry any weight...
...If "you" are the problem, how would walking away from a possibly great relationship serve as help? Scientists are yet to elaborate. Shouldn't, or wouldn't you wish to fix any problems "interfering" with the relationship, per all of the feelings given and received and the utter avoidance of unnecessary heartaches?...
...'I.N.Y.I.M' is a sad excuse, a way of avoiding honesty and the truth along with your feelings, which provides somebody with an 'Easy Way Out' of something they're no longer interested in. This 'No Questions Asked', 'Your-Partner-Is-Practically-Half-Stunned-To-Death' definitely makes breaking up easy and simple, for you. Do you ever get to thinking about how and what you left behind once you so abruptly up and leave - Think about not only the punch to the heart that you have given your partner, but the one to their self-esteem too, knowing they had the lousiest excuse of all laid flat on them...
...Ladies, you need not shed tears over this kind of breakup ... Concur with it and think, "It's Not Me, It's You". A bit of word reversal can go a long way. 'I.N.Y.I.M' displays the ultimate coward. We need men, and not cowards - Somebody who could challenge you, who's completely genuine and sincere, prepared for the hardships a true relationship encounters and will stick by you every step of the way because of the love that never fades or leaves question. And as for the ex, I'd personally leave them in the hands of 'ole Karma.
Apparently, Mr. 'I.N.Y.I.M' wasn't the one, and, he's far from worth it...
...Per the excuse, he definitely wasn't taking things all too serious and neither should you - Laugh it off, as if it was a bad joke or cheesy punchline. Although there is a plethora of fish in the sea, you'll one day see you've reeled in a human being who's worthy of your love, and vice versa. In the meantime, channeling your inner-fish and going for drinkies with the girls while you relax and enjoy single-life isn't bad.
P.S : Happy Pre-Valentines! For all my single Searchers, I suggest drinkies and relaxation with the girls. For those currently in relationships, I wish you Endless Happiness with your mates!
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