"Twist Of Fate."

In a modern day society, it has become almost trendy to worry yourself too much ... Especially for people in relationships. It seems that no matter what you do, there's always that "what if" inextricably linked to almost everything. There are countless things that people fixate on when in a relationship. What if (s)he hasn't fallen for me like I have for them - Am I setting myself up for total heartbreak and failure? What if (s)he cancelled on me not because they're busy, but because they couldn't be bothered to spend the evening with me? And let us not forget the typical female concern of as to whether or not I am fat (That thought always seems to haunt us girls regardless of just about anything these days)...

Basically, no matter how hard we really try to avoid it, "what if" just always makes its' presence known in our everyday lives. I'm here to tell you this my friends : Try seeing it in a different perspective and lessen your unnecessary worries. Everything happens for a reason, correct? One thing leads to another, so what's the point in worrying so much? 'Fate' is said to be what inevitably constructs our lives ... So, in the aftermath of anxiety, depression and stress, we'll be lead to the ending that just does it for us, am I right?

Although, I'm fully aware that when in a moment of despair, it's challenging to see things in such an easy perspective. Fate has set up quite the obstacle course ... It's called 'life'. If it had not been for the events of yesterday and all the days prior, you wouldn't be where it is that you are now. If it hadn't been for then and now, you wouldn't get to where it is you'll be tomorrow and the days after it. See things in a more positive manner rather than negative, then can you strive to be the best you possible, eventually leading yourself to a life that you always desired. =)