"What's The Reason?"

I have been thinking about writing a post like this for a while now. So, I have finally decided to write it. Fortunately, I am starting to get myself back on track with posting regularly , but let's not jinx that. Anyhow, in this post, I'm  going to be basically talking about friend-zoning the one person who loves us unconditionally.

The big question for me right now is "how come?". "How come.." this,  "How come..." that. What I was really thinking about was how come we ignore the ones we love, and love the ones who ignore us? It's a vicious cycle. Every single one of us have that one person who is uncontrollably in love with us, and most of us are currently crushing on or in love with someone other than the person who is uncontrollably in love with us. Why? Well, I wish I knew the exact answer.

It's like most Facebook relationship statuses'; it's complicated. For example, lets say you have had a crush on this kid named Lucas for more than a year now. You keep thinking about him and you just can't get him out of your head. Meanwhile, for the longest time, another person; let's say...Halsey, who has felt the same way about you. Halsey loves you for who you are, and very rarely judges you. He/she thinks that you are the most beautiful/handsome person with the greatest personality and the kindest heart. Halsey is just plain out in love with you. Meanwhile, you feel the same about Lucas, and if you're a guy, lets say you feel the same way about Jenna. You think that Lucas/Jenna is handsome/beautiful, talented, funny, kind-hearted, amazing in all ways possible, and everything you could ever want in a guy/girl. On the other hand, Halsey is all of that and she/he loves you just as much as you do Lucas/Jenna, and then some. How come we ignore Halsey and go for Lucas/Jenna? I wish I knew.

Maybe it's because we love the ones who ignore us and ignore the ones who love us. We friend-zone the one person who is everything we could have ever wanted. We consider them a big/little sister/brother. We tell them everything, they tell us everything, we laugh with that person, we cry with that person, we even share our happiest moments with that person, yet we still go after Jenna/Lucas. I guess we'll never learn. I guess that we'll have to learn it the hard way. Unfortunately, while we're chasing after Jenna/Lucas, Halsey is stressing over the fact how they can't get over you, and at the same time, Lucas/Jenna are probably crushing on another person or no person at all. Like I said earlier, its a vicious cycle.

After reading this, do you understand where I'm trying to go with the fact of friend-zoning others? Or are you friend-zoned yourself? It's not a fun thing to do or a fun place to be, but it's life. Life has it's ups and downs, but that's what makes it worth the ride. We just have to hope for the best, but expect the worst.

***Also, I will now be taking suggestions and requests on what you guys would like me to write about. Maybe it's about abuse, or just a hard decision. Hopefully I will be able to help you with whatever the problem may be. I will try to get to as many as possible!!! =)