"Unfaithful?"

It's been a long time since my last post. I am terribly sorry. Between family situations and a visit to the hospital, everything has been too hectic to have any time to blog. However, if things may go as I plan, I should be back on track within a month or two. Anyhow, let's get back to relationships and the endless search.

What defines faithfulness in a relationship? Well, many people seem to be lacking what qualities a relationship has for faithfulness. Many people lose themselves (and not in a good way). They feel like they have lost that certain spark that kept the relationship together, and they feel as if they need to have another relationship with another person while still in the current relationship. But not everyone thinks the same thing. Some may think that one person just isn't enough and that it's alright and that they'll gain more so called "swag" if they have multiple boyfriends/girlfriends. Others may think that in order to make themselves feel better, they must date two people at once.

I'm not quite sure why people have trouble staying in the relationship, though. It puzzles me. But, for those who have ever cheated before/are cheating on someone right now, stop. Don't ever do it again. You have no clue what that person might be going through, and the last thing they need is to think that someone else doesn't care about them. Whether you have or you are cheating because you think it's cool or because of other reasons, it's still not right to cheat. If you think it'll make you cool, it wont. It'll make you seem like a flipping jerk and to some, a pimp. (Remember; "skillz" won't pay the bills.) If you're be unfaithful in a relationship to make you feel better about yourself, you're really not...you're just hurting someone else for happiness that will not last for a long time.

If you're stuck, and you're just not sure what to do in a relationship and you feel like that special spark is gone, then simply let that person know. Trust me, it'll make the other person in the relationship feel a lot better than you going and basically showing that you are unworthy of staying faithful in a relationship. Sometimes that special spark slowly fades away because of family issues, friend issues, work stress, family stress, etc. Sometimes you just can't help it. Sometimes you just need to put an end to that relationship and maybe, if that spark returns sometime relatively close to when the relationship ended, you can try and see if the other person wants to start over. If not, then maybe it's just not meant to be.

After reading this post, can you come to the conclusion whether or not you're a faithful person? Or did you say to yourself "Wow...I never knew that. I should fix this."? Maybe you read this and didn't think neither of those two things. I'm not sure, and that's because I'm not you. =) With that being said, I wish you all of the luck with your relationships.